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Saturday, July 14, 2007
Lending a shoulder
Often times I see boyfriends carrying their girlfriend's handbags while strolling down the mall hand in hand. I mean the handbags are those really small hobo bags and not over-sized satchels.

Girls, seriously, the handbag is to accessorize your outfit and not your boyfriend's. He can carry your handbag when you need to try on something or go to the washroom. Please do not accessorize your boyfriend with your handbag because it looks gay.

Since when did this trend came about and how it came about is not precisely known. I am not trying to offend anyone , rather create the awareness that guys carrying girly handbags are just gay. Guys, it is not manly at all to carry a handbag. If you want to show your care for her, carry her shopping bags instead.

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posted by DaphStar* @ 12:32 AM  
31 Comments:
  • At July 14, 2007 at 5:17 PM, Blogger Gary said…

    i so fucking agree...its about time a girl said something

     
  • At July 14, 2007 at 9:24 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    i believe that the only time you accessorize the handbag of your girlfriend is only when u're making love, and that's on the floor. With her bra and thongs on the side of the bed while you accesorise her with your johnny.

    Sometimes i don't get it, why do girls need 12 to 60 pairs of shoes when they have only 2 feet?

    man can go with one pair of jeans and 2 pairs of shoes.

     
  • At July 15, 2007 at 12:28 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I was a victim before. She's not even my gf, just some friends and we were dancing in the club. I didn't understand why she insisted I carry her handbag and worse, she put it around my neck (it has a long strap). Later I took it off and gave it back to her but it felt like forever. lol

    Ongzilla

     
  • At July 15, 2007 at 7:45 AM, Blogger zewt said…

    maybe the girls just wanna show off their prowess over the bfs? having said that... bf should be man enough to say no this handbag carrying act... no?

     
  • At July 15, 2007 at 5:50 PM, Blogger khengsiong said…

    So, is it wrong to be a gentleman?

     
  • At July 15, 2007 at 8:19 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    i don't mind carrying the bag for how long while shopping...cause i know when i go back home with her...she's gonna be sucking on my ice-cream and i'll be licking her lolipop.

    do i sound gross?

     
  • At July 15, 2007 at 8:51 PM, Blogger Cheng Yik said…

    Ahaha... All are in the eyes of beholder. I don't think carrying handbag for girl friend or wife is gay-ing. What about a guy is buying Stayfree pads for his wife /girl friend / mother / sister? It is all about... To be or not to be... ;)

     
  • At July 16, 2007 at 3:13 AM, Anonymous Daphstar said…

    anonymous:
    you are so sexed up. But do you wanna look very submissive by carrying your gf's handbag? BTW there is a song about sucking ice cream n licking lolipop...or is it vice versa. Can't remember, anyhow it was number 1 on the House music charts.

    Zewt:
    Its not the bf that should have the say cos if you refuse, the girl will just stand in the middle of the mall and cry like a child, or you might not get any for the entire week. ;). The girl should know very well, not to make her bf look gay.

    Ongzilla:
    Its ok to hold a girl's bag in a club cos she needs to dance n seduce u and she can't do that if her handbag is in the way..HAHA

    Kheng Siong:
    Gentleman is one thing. You can offer to carry her shopping bags but not handbag?! A girl invests a big sum in her handbag so that it'll look good on her,not her bf.
    I know I wanna carry my own bag cos it looks good on me ;)

    Cheng Yik:
    errr...what you mean all in the eyes of beholder. Me no understanding. To be or not to be... gay? kekekek. I know I won't tumpang my bro to buy tampons for me..HAHAH. Its kryptonite for some guys.

     
  • At July 16, 2007 at 8:18 AM, Blogger Jinson Chan said…

    My wife's "I am not a plastic bag" is so cool that I want to carry for her everyday ;-P What's wrong with that?

    http://www.bagsnob.com/2007/04/us_launch_of_im_not_a_plastic.html

     
  • At July 16, 2007 at 8:19 AM, Anonymous Natalie Ng said…

    You are right .. I would never ever ask my bfren to carry my handbag.. doesnt matter big hobo bag, evening bag, small lil bag .. *u get what i mean ... I think guys look outright silly carrying their gfren handbags walking around (ie shopping mall, on da street, clubs?) ... if the girls dunt wanna carry a handbag, then just fucking leave the handbag at home .. its just soooo wrong for the guys to carry the handbags .. yeah wanna be a gentleman, can .. just take out your credit card when your girl go shopping .. haha

     
  • At July 16, 2007 at 9:34 AM, Blogger DaphStar* said…

    Jinson: the "I'm not a Plastic Bag" is such a hot item in Asia that there was blood shed over it in Taiwant! Ridiculous. So I expect there will be blood shed over my Christian Dior plastic bag too very soon!

    Nat: You are sooo right.We are on the same frequency.

     
  • At July 16, 2007 at 2:32 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Daph, the problem is she wasn't very attractive, even when she was dancing; on the other hand, if she was bootylicious I wouldn't mind then being her donkey. lol

    Ongzilla

     
  • At July 17, 2007 at 1:39 AM, Blogger DaphStar* said…

    Ongzilla:
    Aahha...oh well, if it was a CD or an LV then you shouldn't mind carrying even tho she wasn't very attractive..HAAHA.

     
  • At July 17, 2007 at 3:55 PM, Blogger Gary said…

    wtf buy pads for mother...wah lau eh why not put it on for your mother. siao. what the fuck has the world come to.

     
  • At July 17, 2007 at 10:49 PM, Blogger DaphStar* said…

    HAha..put it on for your mother....that's so sick man.

     
  • At July 18, 2007 at 11:23 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Nathalie said..
    You are right .. I would never ever ask my bfren to carry my handbag.. doesnt matter big hobo bag, evening bag, small lil bag .. *u get what i mean ... I think guys look outright silly carrying their gfren handbags walking around (ie shopping mall, on da street, clubs?) ... if the girls dunt wanna carry a handbag, then just fucking leave the handbag at home .. its just soooo wrong for the guys to carry the handbags .. yeah wanna be a gentleman, can .. just take out your credit card when your girl go shopping .. haha

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    yo nat...how about you and me hook up? i'll take you shopping and i'll buy you anything you want. and then we can go back my place and uhh...i'll lick your ice-cream and you can lick my lollipop.

    you know what' i'mma sayin? holla at me girl!

     
  • At July 19, 2007 at 12:04 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    stfu chig... you're yellow as a fuckin banana so dont yap like ya black

     
  • At July 19, 2007 at 2:48 AM, Blogger Xavy-licious said…

    No.1: I totally agree that men look ridiculous carrying their gf's handbag because it makes them appear weak and helpless.

    No.2: You don't have to carry yr gf's handbag to show that you're a gentleman. Nxt time she asks for your shoulders to place her bag, tell her no and instead put all your stuff in her handbag and make her carry it. Revenge is sweet. Love is about giving and taking. You have been taking in her handbag shit, now it's time to give it back to her. Love is sweet.

    No.3: Women are obsessed with shoes. We admit it. But what is the price of a pair of shoes compared to a car's spare-parts/kits? Like, how many parts do men need to fit onto/into their car??

    No.4: Again, we all know that women are the stronger sex. If women can make men carry their handbags, what makes you think women are willing to go down on their knees just to lick you lollipop? Is that what you call it? Lollipop? Are you sure you're not one of them men who carries women's handbags? seriously, lollipop?!?!?!?!?!? Lemme tell you what you can do to earn that lollipop licking fantasy of yours, it's a thing called self-respect and respecting the opposite sex too. I shall now knight thy anatomy Sir Lollipop.

     
  • At July 19, 2007 at 3:10 AM, Anonymous Natalie Ng said…

    Anonymous said…

    Nathalie said..
    You are right .. I would never ever ask my bfren to carry my handbag.. doesnt matter big hobo bag, evening bag, small lil bag ..

    ----------------------------------
    yo nat...how about you and me hook up? i'll take you shopping and i'll buy you anything you want. and then we can go back my place and uhh...i'll lick your ice-cream and you can lick my lollipop.

    you know what' i'mma sayin? holla at me girl!
    ...................................
    YO Anonymous , first of all my name is Natalie Ng and not Nathalie.. u cant even copy + paste properly. If you are so desperate looking for *ice-cream to lick (ice-cream? are u like..12 years old?) most prolly you have a 3inch lollipop (lollipop? so do you owe a candyshop or what) ... do us a favour by using your brain to think before you even submit any comments to a lady blog. And I dunt mean by using your candy aka lollipop brain to think (which means your lollipop could even be shorter than 3 inch)

     
  • At July 19, 2007 at 11:58 AM, Blogger Gary said…

    anonymous, this is your chance to say nyeh nyeh nyeh nyeh nyeh.

     
  • At July 19, 2007 at 9:18 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    dear natalshit aka (natalie),

    if you can't take a joke, you don't have to respond in such a rude manner you dumb mofo.

    First of all, i was just being playful, and if i would have known that you are such a sensitive piece of crap, i wouldn't even have ask you for anything under the sun. And for you to throw wild assumption of me being a 12 year old kid and all those nonsense u posted, well that goes to show how SHORT your temper is and how Unlucky of me to have posted a respond to a crap like you.

    I don't like to this to get into a mud slinging match...but hey...if its a fight you...its a fight you got.

    i bet you're the kind of girl that when enter's the club, you'll probably start assuming "ohh this guy's got no class, oh this guy has go no style, oh this guy isn't worth my time or oh i'm better than to left myself be in the company of these people",

    hey you know what, get your f**cking ass of your high horse and face reality, you're just a insecure, afraid lil girl who thinks that everyone is out to get you. Well here's a news flash ..."you ain't it".

     
  • At July 19, 2007 at 9:31 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    and to Xavy-licious,

    self respect you said???

    what? disco ball worshipper? wtf is that? i can't even respect a beruk like you if you're really serious about what you write on your profile "I am the epitome of a Disco Ball Worshipper for I created the term "Disco Ball Worshipper". Nuff said, biatch."

    yup u're right...you're a biatch with a couple of screws loose.

    what's with you people? here i am dropping a line or two just to spices things up...and here comes MISS DISCO BALLa and Natalie spoofs up in my alley shouting and yapping and being sarcastic. Girls grow a brain and some tolerance if you have any to begin with. It doesn't take a genius to figure out that you guys need to have less alco and more "relaxation"

    ...sigh.

     
  • At July 19, 2007 at 10:33 PM, Blogger Xavy-licious said…

    Oooooo...do i sense a little bit of sensitivity here? Dearest Mr Lollipop, can't you handle a joke or sarcasm?? You were joking around about ppl licking your lollipop and expect ppl not to feel offended about it, rite? So, I did the same thinking that you're open enough for criticizm. Well, I guess I was wrong. I thought I could get you into a playful debate. Oh well, YOU should relax, my fren. Then maybe, just maybe, I'd consider changing your anatomy's name to something other than Mr Lollipop.

    P/S Don't have to be so serious all the time. It's bad for health. You're too young to die of a heart attack (I think. Are you young? Or have I been teasing an uncle? If you are an uncle, sorry uncle). Oh, and also, aren't things spiced up already? Just the way you like it!

     
  • At July 19, 2007 at 11:03 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    to disco worshipper,

    i'm fine with jokes. but your immediate reply for my posting on natalie doesn't equate to you tagging along. i don't intend to waste anymore typing to a person like you. as far as i know...you're a wannabe. SO Be someone else and not this "i was also playing along" bs.

    get a life.

     
  • At July 20, 2007 at 9:52 AM, Blogger DaphStar* said…

    stfu chig..! HAAHA...Still can't get over it.

     
  • At July 20, 2007 at 2:16 PM, Anonymous yw said…

    HAHAHA all the lollipopping and disco balling... you guys need to find the nearest toilet, proceed to masturbate yourself to calm down (prof yeoh said it would work). And perhaps u two can go on a date to the local kopitiam

     
  • At July 20, 2007 at 8:30 PM, Anonymous Natalie Ng said…

    WooHOo... now this Anonymous guy aka Mr. Lollipop is being all workup over my comments and me being a total bitch for replying to HIS OWN COMMENTS??? * whats with foul language man? .. u asked me to get a life? why dunt u grow up? Me being rude? SO u think that asking a girl to lick your so called 3 inch lollipop is NOT RUDE? OH YEAH.. so u can be rude and I CANT be rude ..You are right .. its really wasting my time even to read your comments because if you dunt respect me, u dunt gain respect from me as well... And to come and think abt it .. U are STILL posting your comments anonymously .. COME ON stop kidding yourself and .. GROW UP
    .................................

    AND yeah, u said u can handle JOKES? If you can handle jokes, you wouldnt be posting THIS ->

    At July 19, 2007 9:18 PM, Anonymous said…

    dear natalshit aka (natalie),

    if you can't take a joke, you don't have to respond in such a rude manner you dumb mofo.

    First of all, i was just being playful, and if i would have known that you are such a sensitive piece of crap, i wouldn't even have ask you for anything under the sun. And for you to throw wild assumption of me being a 12 year old kid and all those nonsense u

    .................................

    Who is the short tempered one now? and Who is the rude boy now? and Who is writing a 100 sentence long condeming me now?

     
  • At July 21, 2007 at 10:44 AM, Blogger DaphStar* said…

    yw: Masturbating can help destress. I know of a friend who masturbated (in skool toilet) during the SPM Add Math paper. He said it was too freaking hard that it stressed him up so he had to go take a wank.

     
  • At July 21, 2007 at 1:58 PM, Anonymous yw said…

    sorry to tell you daph... your friend was just being a sad horny lil pervert who suddenly had a boner for the tudung auntie examiner.

    and the fact that he told you that was just so that he can later jerkoff again to the idea that somebody knew he was beating it during spm.

    u need new friends dude

     
  • At July 22, 2007 at 7:53 AM, Blogger DaphStar* said…

    yw: he can't possibly get horny becos of the tudung auntie cos he's gay.

     
  • At July 25, 2007 at 3:15 AM, Blogger Gary said…

    kanineh 7 early 8 early cry father cry mother

     
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